{"id":11,"date":"2004-03-26T01:53:45","date_gmt":"2004-03-26T01:53:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/?p=11"},"modified":"2004-03-26T01:53:45","modified_gmt":"2004-03-26T01:53:45","slug":"not-lost-not-found","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/?p=11","title":{"rendered":"not lost, not found"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>To every broken heart in here<br \/>\nLove was once a part, but now it\\&#8217;s disappeared<br \/>\nShe told me that it\\&#8217;s all a part of the choices that your making<br \/>\nEven when you think you\\&#8217;re right<br \/>\nYou have to give to take<\/i><\/p>\n<p>The people I meet in my life often arrive unexpectedly.  And there\\&#8217;s so much potential there.  I can take any path I want.  An endless amount of possibilities.<\/p>\n<p>I met someone recently through orkut.  We exchanged a few e-mails.  Unlike the people I know, I have no judgment of him.  No past incidents that caused me to cry.  No bitterness.  Nothing.  And here is a gentle smile for something that is wholly unpredictable.<\/p>\n<p>It feels so much better that I start over.  A new obsession.  I asked him what his intentions were.  He wanted to meet me in person.  <i>Nothing<\/i>, he said.   That was the same response I received from Brad.  Will it end up like that?  Should I let it?  Should I let it be intense?<\/p>\n<p>One thing he said that struck me the most was, <i>as INFJs, love is the end for us all<\/i>.  It is true.  If I didn\\&#8217;t come to terms with it, I would wander the campus, searching for something.  Something to hold.  Something concrete.  Something.  And I would watch other people in love looking for an answer.  Always searching.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To every broken heart in here Love was once a part, but now it\\&#8217;s disappeared She told me that it\\&#8217;s all a part of the choices that your making Even when you think you\\&#8217;re right You have to give to take The people I meet in my life often arrive unexpectedly. And there\\&#8217;s so much &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/?p=11\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">not lost, not found<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}