{"id":132,"date":"2004-10-29T01:58:27","date_gmt":"2004-10-29T01:58:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/?p=132"},"modified":"2004-10-29T01:58:27","modified_gmt":"2004-10-29T01:58:27","slug":"i-dont-really-know-you-well","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/?p=132","title":{"rendered":"i don\\&#8217;t really know you well"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Wait, this surprised me.  One of my friends&#8230;who I have known only since August&#8230;just told me that he didn\\&#8217;t \\&#8221;REALLY\\&#8221; know me that well.<\/p>\n<p>But we have talked almost every day since I met him.  I suppose because of my often hasty departures from friendships, I often have to get to know people really well in short amount of time.  And I do.  And usually, the other person feels like he or she has gotten to known me too.<\/p>\n<p>But I was surprised, sort of slightly hurt&#8230;that he still didn\\&#8217;t think he knew me that well.  At least not well enough to visit me?<\/p>\n<p>We\\&#8217;re completely platonic.  We established that from the very beginning.  And I don\\&#8217;t know.  Maybe I hide too much.  Maybe.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Wait, this surprised me. One of my friends&#8230;who I have known only since August&#8230;just told me that he didn\\&#8217;t \\&#8221;REALLY\\&#8221; know me that well. But we have talked almost every day since I met him. I suppose because of my often hasty departures from friendships, I often have to get to know people really well &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/?p=132\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">i don\\&#8217;t really know you well<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-132","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/132","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=132"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/132\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=132"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=132"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=132"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}