{"id":151,"date":"2004-12-11T23:02:08","date_gmt":"2004-12-11T23:02:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/?p=151"},"modified":"2004-12-11T23:02:08","modified_gmt":"2004-12-11T23:02:08","slug":"her-self-centeredness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/?p=151","title":{"rendered":"her self-centeredness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My housemate, the one that lives next to me.<\/p>\n<p>Every few days, I am overcome by anguish that she is self-centered.  I mean, am I really overanalyzing?  I really don\\&#8217;t think so.  I tell my other housemate that I don\\&#8217;t want to go out today.  I don\\&#8217;t want to go to the bar in Shadyside.  My housemate looks all concerned and I laugh&#8230;playing it off saying that it\\&#8217;s not my thing today.<\/p>\n<p>I go into my room and start working on my stuff (more like not doing anything significant).  And i hear my housemate arrive&#8230;go upstairs to prepare to go out.  She doesn\\&#8217;t ask me once whether I am going although it\\&#8217;s obvious I am in my room.  She walks back and forth from her room to the bathroom going past my door.  Not asking anything.  Was I supposed to come out and congratulate her on going out&#8230;again?  And then they leave.<\/p>\n<p>What happened to consideration?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My housemate, the one that lives next to me. Every few days, I am overcome by anguish that she is self-centered. I mean, am I really overanalyzing? I really don\\&#8217;t think so. I tell my other housemate that I don\\&#8217;t want to go out today. I don\\&#8217;t want to go to the bar in Shadyside. &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/?p=151\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">her self-centeredness<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-151","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/151","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=151"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/151\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=151"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=151"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=151"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}