Yesterday I finally got a response back from one of my valued friends…and she said \\”don\\’t do it. don\\’t go after someone who has emotional baggage.\\”<\/p>\n
It\\’s sound advice, and yet sometimes you can\\’t control what you feel.<\/p>\n
Of course, I think I got myself stuck in a mind trap. I don\\’t want to be interested, yet I feel myself drawn? The problem is I wonder if I like him because of him or because the possibility of being NON-alone is there.<\/p>\n
And if it did happen, I have a prepared statement: Even though I feel myself being pulled toward, I don\\’t think I could do it, because you\\’re not whole yet–you\\’re still not over Helen.<\/i><\/p>\n
But we all know how easily people can start going into denial. Hopefully, rationality will stand up.<\/p>\n
He randomly imed me…then followed up with a \\”you know, i like talking to you, because I can say anything to you.\\”<\/p>\n
I always end up in that position, don\\’t I.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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