So my dad noted today on the way back from the weekly dinner that we don\\’t get along.<\/p>\n
I show my dislike upfront, because why should I hide it?<\/p>\n
I don\\’t like how my dad disapproves of my choices. Or at least doesn\\’t show faith in the choices I make. Yes, I went to graduate school and paid tuition. It did not come with a fellowship, but that\\’s the choice I made. Then the way I interview, etc. etc. and what to show during a job. My loans.<\/p>\n
So I am limiting the time I spend with my parents.<\/p>\n
No, I don\\’t want to go swimming with my dad. Because I\\’ll get the feeling that he\\’ll disapprove of something. By who knows, the suit I wear or whatever.<\/p>\n
Sure, there\\’s the American way of explaining my feelings and thoughts, but I don\\’t want to. I have gone through this, arguing about the issues.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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