{"id":385,"date":"2006-07-11T01:06:52","date_gmt":"2006-07-11T01:06:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/?p=385"},"modified":"2006-07-11T01:06:52","modified_gmt":"2006-07-11T01:06:52","slug":"bitterness-still-exists","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/?p=385","title":{"rendered":"Bitterness still exists"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I know that when I don\\&#8217;t really appreciate someone\\&#8217;s company, I\\&#8217;ll flake.  But I rarely do that because it\\&#8217;s something against my own morals.  Or just who I am.<\/p>\n<p>I just can\\&#8217;t stand the fact that Ben flaked on me&#8211;all on my few days in Boston.  Seriously, Newton is not that far from Somerville.  I offered to come out to Newton, but he refused saying that there was nothing to do.<\/p>\n<p>Thanks for being so vague about it.  Because ultimately, what it tells me is that you\\&#8217;re not interested.  At least be a man and tell me to my face that you don\\&#8217;t want to try any more.  I am not trying really, but it\\&#8217;s more because I believe I want to do the right thing.  I do the right thing of connecting with people because that\\&#8217;s what I do.  Because he or she is my friend.  I don\\&#8217;t give up connections easily.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for flaking.  It would have been nice (and brutal) to hear the truth.  This is the third time.  And this time, it\\&#8217;s the worst of all.  So I did receive attention from you&#8211;you kissing me, sleeping with you (with no further advances).  And I suppose that\\&#8217;s enough to stop it.  Can you seriously let me believe that your work was all that happened during that weekend?  No.  I cannot.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know that when I don\\&#8217;t really appreciate someone\\&#8217;s company, I\\&#8217;ll flake. But I rarely do that because it\\&#8217;s something against my own morals. Or just who I am. I just can\\&#8217;t stand the fact that Ben flaked on me&#8211;all on my few days in Boston. Seriously, Newton is not that far from Somerville. I &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/?p=385\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Bitterness still exists<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-385","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/385","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=385"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/385\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=385"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=385"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/j.unoccupied.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=385"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}