A few weeks later, I realize that I don\\’t really care about Bo. I am not sure if it\\’s myself denying it, but I don\\’t feel anything except \\”good riddance\\”. Denial?<\/p>\n
But my emotions and mind is elsewhere.<\/p>\n
I absolutely hate that someone is trying to do my job. That is the PM at the project. I know that I am rather sensitive to my insecurity as a designer so when someone goes over it, it\\’s so annoying. Or more so from someone who isn\\’t qualified. It bothers me—maybe because there\\’s worry that I am a fraud? I am not sure. <\/p>\n
But I really hate it when someone tells me how to do a job that I know best. The micromanagement that only tells me that I am not doing my job. Just let me do it. I am as detail oriented about these kind of things as the next person, especially when it comes down to my responsibility.<\/p>\n
If you don\\’t like the way I do it, then why don\\’t you do it then? I know that\\’s just a catch all, be all behavior, but it\\’s the only way. I am not trying to be any better (maybe communicate better) and I know that it\\’s your insecurity reflecting itself to me. But it gets in the way. And I can establish boundaries right.<\/p>\n
Whatever the case, this totally isnt working out. It drives me up the wall and I behave poorly and it becomes a nonproductive environment when my sulk rides all over everything. I am pissed. So I hold the words back and yet it comes pouring out nonetheless. It seethes out and I know that I am not compromising. I know that I am not making true collaboration. But I thought that this would be left to my domain.<\/p>\n
So the only thing that I can do is walk away, because that\\’s the next best thing and I really would do it. Seriously. Just leave me alone!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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