Yesterday chwong decided to be honest and tell me that I lack confidence. That he noticed this. At first, I was very offended, because I certainly dont\’ believe I am that insecure.
But as he went on and on, it seemed more like he was projecting himself onto me. Rather he believed I lacked confidence, because it was something he saw in himself.
And it\’s true, I do lack confidence in some areas. But the thing is that I spend a large portion of my life trying to be more confident. And if I am right now…if people believe I lack confidence, then I haven\’t achieved anything at all