not lack of confidence

Yesterday chwong decided to be honest and tell me that I lack confidence. That he noticed this. At first, I was very offended, because I certainly dont\’ believe I am that insecure.

But as he went on and on, it seemed more like he was projecting himself onto me. Rather he believed I lacked confidence, because it was something he saw in himself.

And it\’s true, I do lack confidence in some areas. But the thing is that I spend a large portion of my life trying to be more confident. And if I am right now…if people believe I lack confidence, then I haven\’t achieved anything at all

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  1. Philosophy, beginning in wonder … is able to fancy everything different from what it is. It sees the familiar as if it were strange, and the strange as if it were familiar. It can take things up and lay them down again. Its mind is full of air that plays round every subject. It rouses us from our native dogmatic slumber and breaks up our caked prejudices….A man with no philosophy in him is the most inauspicious and unprofitable of all possible social mates. by free online poker

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