I really don\’t like when I get like this.
Usually against someone who doesn\’t quite understand what i asked. I have tried many things…that it now it seems like nagging. Because I am willing to open up about other things when things aren\’t going my way.
There are a few things that I demand to work in my favor. And I got annoyed that just two were not followed at the beginning. Putting down the toilet seat and changing the toilet paper regularly. I got used to the seat not being down. But the other things, I just have to bring it up clearly. And then, it\’s not even followed. Hello? Dishes in the sink? For more than 24 hours?
If I enable him, then he will get used to not doing it. So I am not doing it. Maybe there\’s no way about it except to be direct about it. I say…there are all these things that not understood. And I\’ll scream about it. Because I don\’t care.
But the worst thing that can happen is if he decides to move out. And that\’s pretty much what happens. I let things lie…and perhaps I make the space mine and it doesn\’t feel like home to anyone else.